A Lost Etiquette by Muhammad Ismail Al-Muqaddim is a profound exploration into the Islamic principles governing privacy, respect, and decorum when seeking permission to enter someone’s home or private space. In an age where boundaries are often overlooked, this book serves as a timely reminder of the etiquettes that safeguard personal privacy and uphold the dignity of individuals.
Drawing from authentic Islamic sources, the author meticulously outlines the guidelines set forth by the Qur’an and Sunnah regarding seeking permission. The book delves into various scenarios, including visits to family members, neighbors, and friends, emphasizing the importance of knocking, greeting, and awaiting a response before entering. It also addresses the nuances of seeking permission from children, spouses, and elders, highlighting the balance between respect and familial closeness.
Furthermore, A Lost Etiquette discusses the significance of maintaining tranquility within the home, ensuring that it remains a sanctuary free from unwarranted intrusions. By adhering to these etiquettes, individuals contribute to a harmonious and respectful society, fostering stronger community bonds.
This book is an invaluable resource for Muslims seeking to revive and implement the noble manners taught by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). It serves as a guide for cultivating an environment where privacy is respected and interpersonal relationships are strengthened through mutual consideration and understanding.
{O you who believe, do not enter houses other than your own until you have asked permission and greeted their occupants; that is better for you, so that you may pay heed.} (an-Noor 24: 27)
A Lost Etiquette is a detailed study of the correct etiquette of seeking permission to enter someone’s house or private room to protect people’s privacy, prevent intrusion, and ensure that the home remains a place of tranquillity for the residents. This practice was critical during the time of Prophet Muhammad (bpuh), when there were no curtains or screens. The rules about invited or uninvited guests and social visits or dinner invitations apply in contemporary times as well. Rules for seeking permission within the house vary for children, close relatives, and married couples, as well as for situations like returning from a journey.
This enlightening and informative text is written with sensitivity and a deep understanding of decorum, privacy, and respect for others.
